Negaraku...

Merdeka!!!Merdeka!!Merdeka!!!

Hubby and yeh-yeh have been teaching I-vern to say Merdeka!!!Merdeka!!!Merdeka!!! since last week..
We brought back 2 Malaysia flag from our trip to hubby's co. family day trip.
since then lil' mons has been happily playing and waving with the flag everyday when he comes back from nanny's place.
I-vern has started mimicking daddy and yeh-yeh Merdeka!!! Merdeka!!! Merdeka!!!
with his own version of baby babbling ~~er-de-ka~~er-de-ka~~er-de-ka~~
heheh, guess can start teaching him more about Malaysia soon so that he will have a better understanding what is Merdeka all about.

I remembered how i had gone through all the piles of history book of our country's Merdeka...
Well frankly, i was once a bookworm.

Anyway, i have so many many many reason to love Malaysia.

1) it had given me the opportunity of a peaceful nation...those &(*&(*^ story of our nationhood sometimes are not properly reflected...well just be rational lo..
2) education opportunity and of coz learning is lifelong process...we are alot luckier than other countries u know.. well if you don't like it here then move on lo.... dont just mengada-ngada and kucar-kacir keadaan...find ur own solution la...theng!!!
3) i love the food!!!!!!
hahaha ~ where else can u find mamak stall or eateries operating 24 hours leh???
4) i love the language..it's beautiful..ppl from all walks of life could just understand you ... u think other plc get the same thing meh>????where????
5) em... so many things la... :usage of "lah, etc other expression which is a symbolic of our language"
fullamak...terror nya....
hahahhaha

the one and only one thing i dont like is W-H-Y do we have to pay tolls?????????????????????????

it's very very taxing u know...

name for bb #2 if is a girl..

	My Favorite Names

M/F

Name

Origin

Meaning

Rating

Delete

Imae Japanese present generation

Iris Greek rainbow. Mythology: the goddess of the r..

Zoe Greek life

Zhuo Chinese outstanding, brilliant

which one would you prefer???

mY birthday

my birthday is on 26 August.
however this year it falls on the 14/7 of chinese lunar calendar....
quite day...
lousy day....cz of some %*&^&*^*& ppl one day said dont bring bb out late
and on that day said is ok to go out late coz &^&*^*& wana eat with some ppl!!!
waseh!!! spoil my mood....

nvm had a good replacement as promised by hubby on 28-08
(hahah buy nombor ekor)

brought i-vern for his jab
then go ikea jalan jalan
eat alot
till stomach so big and bloated akkakakakak

i-vern was very good boy... need to expose him more to other children
felt that he is like another frog-under- the -coconut (tempurung)
thnx for living in this plc........

What is Life

What is Life??

AHA for the day:

Life is a gift, accept it

Life is an adventure, dare it

Life is a mystery, unfold it

Life is a game, play it

Life is a struggle, face it

Life is beauty, praise it

Life is a puzzle, solve it

Life is an opportunity, take it

Life is sorrowful, experience it

Life is a song, sing it

Life is a goal, achieve it

Life is a mission, fulfill it.....

What is life to u?

June 30, 2006 in 2day in @ gR@In of s@nD | Permalink | Comments (0)

re-mi-nis-ing-the-me-in-me

this post was taken from my http://wittywit.blogs.friendster.com

April 25, 2007

re-mi-nis-ing-the-me-in-me

last saturday, i called up a very old old friend of mine; Nat.

it was just a casual up-dating chat. however, after the call, what really makes me re-mi-ni-se me is...i feel very very different after the conversation.

(deep breath) i feel really a step further...

"i realised i have been moving moving moving non-stop for these few years..."

i never stop to realise the things that i have going through was actually far ahead of my peers....phew...

it is like a 25 years = 25 years : 25 years = 30 years.

am i actually moving too fast ahead? gotta think think on it...

i have gone through the ups n downs, single to married, married to mom-to-be,

mom-to-be to mom...

from one industry to another...even friends realises that i am changing abit too fast...and i am picking up a bit to fast than the rest...

am i making my self conditioned or seasoned up to fast?

or am i just moving towards my goals and know where i wanna be and now heading towards it?

let me just counter check...

i wana be a millionaire by 30

in order to achieve this my journey is to learn as much.. to be in as many industry as fast...to network as fast...so that i am well versed..

so by 25 i get most experience to build a solid foundation

by 26 start making the $$ atleast

27 make my first 200k

28 my next 500k

29 my first 1 mil

30 my next 2-3 mil

and so forth

i wana live in a 1/2 mil family home

cozyly and easy furnishing with a great kitchen, with all sort of equipment,

drive a Merc B200 Turbo

i wana semi-retire by 42

so that i can walk along my child/chidren growing up period.

no matter what are the factors that r polishing the raw stone to be a diamond,

i am very happy for where i am today......

i will make everyday a happy and constructive day...

i love myself...

i really misses the old me...but i like the new me becoz i know what i want, where i want to be, when i want to be there, how i wana be there and with who i want to be there.

how to bring up my children

with reference to the below article by Earl Nightingale:

"i want my children to grow up
-having their own set of mindset
-putting them into liberalized actions
-have their own vision and mission
-be independent"

so now u know la why i hated it so much when #(*(&*^ ppl come mengada-ngada infront of me!!!!
niamah!!! so smart go teach ur own children first la...ur own child also cant be taught u wana come teach me how to teach my children.....
long way to go la......!!!!!! pirah lu!!!!

aduhh~~~~~~~

A distinguished American psychotherapist has said that no one, as far as we know, is born neurotic. We learn to become neurotic as a result of our upbringing. We are raised by other human beings and they literally teach us to become neurotic.

If a child is raised to believe that intelligence and beauty are worthwhile traits, and that he is bright and handsome, well, he will tend to look upon himself as "good" and to have a favorable self-concept. But if he is raised to believe that he is stupid and ugly, he will tend to look upon himself as "bad" and to have a poor self-concept. Our early self-concepts depend upon the concepts that others have toward us. If those who are important in the life of a child generally blame him, he will learn to blame himself; if they consistently accept him, he will learn to accept himself. That does not mean that the self-concept a child first learns is absolutely final and crucial; he can, later in life, change it for better or worse. But it's hard. And this early self-concept is most important, and it does tend to set the pattern for later attitudes and behavior. I read somewhere that self-confidence is like a psychological credit card. And I can still remember my mother telling me that I could do anything I set my heart upon. To tell a youngster he or she is great is to give him the kind of self-image he needs to build a meaningful life for himself. Youngsters will discover their limitations, their blind spots, the areas in which they have little or no aptitude, soon enough without our help. Self confidence is a kind of psychological credit card and is of far greater value than any other we can carry. When we see someone who is neurotic, it should elicit our sympathy in the realization that the person was not born that way...he was taught to be neurotic by his elders. Neuroses are like chains that are put on children to hinder them in their development and activities. Earl Nightingale

hair pulling days

F-R-A-N-K-L-Y!!!

i have been having many many many many (countless) hair pulling days!!!!!
aiyoooooooo!!!!!!
first the damn wireless
2nd the damn internet conNection !!thnx to d streamaszzzzzz
3rd the hp kong
4rd then the notebook kong

i really had enough of nonsense
have i been sending the wrong side of the law of attraction ?????
or perhaps is time to change?
but the atm supply also kong....TENG!!!!

nvm

and i really can't stand it longer stayin put in this plc for the next (atleast) another 6 SIX months.......yooooooooooooo

i cant stand talking
i cant stand the noise
i cant stand i need to talk
i cant stand doing those small reporting
u think i got ntg else beter to do ah?
i prefer to shut up and do watever i want u know

'silence is golden" wor

u dono meh?????

what's the prob with my son
a child is a child lama esp a 1 year bb
u think he so smart meh can understanD all ur ranting?????
he is in the stage of explorace la ma
u cant tolerate one meh?
is like 1 vs 60 u know
gila siao

canot talk softly to him one meh
canot tell him off things nicely one meh
MUST SCREAM ONE MEH??????!!!!!!!!

frankly i dont want my son to have those #@%^%*&() kinda upbringin like wat u do to urs. OK!!!!!????

DAMN IT!!!!!!!

still refurbishing

still refurbishing...still underconstruction....

i believe

I believe

I believe

Artist: Yolanda Adams Lyrics
Song: I Believe Lyrics

They said you wouldn't make is so far uh uh
And ever since they said it, it's been hard
But nevermind the nights you had to cry
Cause you have never let it go inside
You worked real hard
And you know exactly what you want and need
So believe and you can never give up
You can reach your goals
Just talk to your soul and say…

(Chorus:)
I believe I can (I can)
I believe I will (I will)
I believe I know my dreams are real (know my dreams are real)
I believe I'll chant (Oh yea)
I believe I'll dance
I believe I'll grow real soon and (That's why)
That is what I do believe

Your goals are just a thing in your soul uh uh
And you know that your moves will let them show
You keep creating pictures in your mind
So just believe they will come true in time
It will be fine
Leave all of your cares and stress behind
Just let it go
Let the music flow inside
Forget all your pain
And just start to believe

(Chorus:)
I believe I can (I believe I can oh yea)
I believe I will
I believe I know my dreams are real (All of my dreams are real)
I believe I'll chant
I believe I'll dance (I gotta dance)
I believe I'll grow real soon and (ooo)
That is what I do believe
Whoa oa oa YEA…

(Music break)

Nevermind what people say
Hold your head high and turn away
With all our hopes and dreams
I will believe
Even though it seems it's not for me
I won't give up I'll keep it up
Look into the sky
I will achieve all my needs
I will always believe….OoOo

(Chorus 2x)
I believe I can
I believe I will (I can)
I believe I know my dreams are real (I got strength)
I believe I'll chant
I believe I'll dance (I gotta dance)
I believe I'll grow real soon and (watch me watch me watch me)
That is what I do believe (I do believe in me)

I believe I can
I believe I will (oh yea)
I believe I know my dreams are real
I believe I'll chant
I believe I'll dance (I gotta dance)
I believe I'll grow real soon and
That is what I do believe (I do believe! yayeeyay)

well since i am back...

this is an old blog of mine..guess it is now aged more than 3 years old.
i have deleted some of the old content of the blog. not very relevant la...
i will transfer some good write-up from my the other older blog here soon...and also to renovate this blog with myee's help..heheh tqtq

i am back

i am going to use this blog once again, i find the other blog i am using very troublesome ...ehfsahkhegflkw so i am now here....